"Of all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest of these: 'It might have been!'" -John Greenleaf Whittier

I've heard this quote a lot over the years and it always kind of haunts me.  I'm a hesitater, or in other words i don't make decisions quickly or easily and often let opportunities to do something good pass me by...I want to be able to live each moment without regrets...now i know that mistakes are a part of life, but i don't want to not do something and wish i had later when it comes to doing something kind for someone else. I just read this quote in President Monson's general conference talk on "Love-the essence of the Gospel."